A land of wonder

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When you were a child, a child that dreamed, the one who slept wide awake and never thought of anything bad or negative. How did you feel?

Don’t really remember, right!

Have you ever thought of that energy, that laughter, that spontaneity or the urge to ask a thousand questions at once ever again?
Not really. And how do you defend yourself for it?
Let me guess! You are too old to do that, or too busy, tired, overburdened, overcautious, too sick or the lamest one perhaps that you are too mature to do all that.

And all the time when someone asks you how are you? and you respond back saying, I am fine.
But, deep down you are asking for help because something is always missing. You never feel complete or fulfilled.  Except a few times when the day was really awesome or someone you love took out some time to talk to you.
But, is feeling special and wonderful just for a few days every month okay for you?
Is it good enough for you to proceed like this for the rest of your existence?

Let me share a secret here, why do you think you were happier and content in the younger days?
It’s because you did not depend on others for it. If you felt like running you ran, if you had to play you went for it, if you had to read you asked your parents to buy a book for you and kept on asking till it was fulfilled and did not let it go.
But now, all you do is let it go.

You keep moving in circles because you don’t want to be counted as socially unfit or someone who is different from others.
Then one day when you are too annoyed with life you say to yourself that tomorrow when I get up everything will be different, I will not be like what I am right now and will live the life to the fullest.
And we all know what happens the next morning. We never do what we had promised ourselves the last night.

Let me tell you another secret. 
No one cares but, you.

Stop caring so much about you being a grownup or that what will people say. Try and make a small wonderland for yourself and experience the mesmerizing effect it has on you because, if you are not happy you can’t make anyone else happy.

There is a saying that, you can’t pour from an empty cup and it perfectly fits in each of our lives. Dare to dream, dare to live. Don’t give up on who you are and on the possibility of who you can be.

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