Everyone seems to be unhappy with you?

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I shall begin by saying, try as hard as you wish, you could never please everyone.

Abraham Lincoln said,
“You can please some of the people all of the time, you can please all of the people some of the time, but you can't please all the people all of the time”

We as humans have a tendency to try and be perfect, to try and be loved by everyone.
We shall be dammed if someone displeases us.

Why?
Why do we put ourselves through this.

The biggest thing that we think before we pursue anything is,  what will people think??

We need to understand that no matter what we do there will always be someone who will find some issue with it.

No matter how perfect you try and make it, there will always be people to find faults in it.

So stop trying to please them rather start living for yourself, love yourself.
You are perfect the way you are, believe in this and nothing can pull you down.

Do what your gut says and not what others say.

LIVE FOR YOURSELF, IT IS ONLY THEN THAT YOU WILL BE TRULY HAPPY.

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